Simple Method to Get Your Ex Back

Did you screw up your relationship somehow and suddenly your ex wanted to break up? Maybe it happened without warning, or maybe you saw it coming. Whatever the reasons, breakups that aren't mutual are never fun, and sometimes the only thing you'll be able to think about after a breakup is how you can get your ex girlfriend back.

Here is a simple method to get your ex back that has a huge chance of working even if you've screwed up royally.

Step 1 - Break off contact

This might seem like the last thing you want to do, since your mind is constantly on your ex, constantly replaying everything you might have done, and stressing over every last detail of why she broke up with you. But you actually need to stop calling her, stop texting her, and just break off contact for right now.

Don't worry, it isn't permanent. But it's important to forget all the little things you're obsessing over - like WHY the breakup happened. Instead just accept it so you can focus on moving forward.

Step 2 - Write a letter saying you understand

After a week or so of not contacting your ex, you need to write a letter explaining that you understand how she's feeling and you accept her decision to split. You have no expectations, no further demands, nothing - all you are saying is that you understand.

This takes the weight off your ex's shoulders. No longer does she have the pressure of feeling she let you down or hurt you, because now she knows you understand what he's feeling.

Step 3 - Gently coax your ex back into your life

Your ex will probably be sending you little signals if she wants to get back together with you, like continuing contact even though you're broken up, or saying she's moving on and "you should too", which means she still cares about you and your wellbeing.

In fact, very few relationships are ever permanently over. Haven't you known at least one couple who broke up, only to get back together later?

At this stage, your ex is going to be very vulnerable, so everything you do must be exactly right.

Learn the exact simple method to get your ex back no matter what caused your breakup.