How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend - 3 Things Not to Do to Win Her Back

The sad and terrible reality is that you will feel pain and hurt at the fact your ex girlfriend broke up with you. These feelings are going to make you act in ways that will probably just drive her farther away. Instead of lashing out, stop what you're doing right now and think about these three things you should absolutely never do if you want to know how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

1. Show your anger physically

Do not ever punch things around her - be it a wall, a door, or worse, a living thing. When you punch things and react with physical anger, all you are showing her is that you are not capable of controlling yourself or your anger - which is very childlike.

She wants to see more than anything that you are in control of yourself all the time. If you need to punch something, get to the gym, put on some boxing gloves, and whap the heck out of the punching bag.

2. Show your anger verbally

Know when it's easiest to say the wrong thing? When your emotions are running high, like they are after a breakup. You will be feeling the fear of losing your girlfriend forever, the pain of knowing you've said and done bad things, and you will feel angry at yourself for pushing her away. You are more likely to say things that will drive her away rather than encourage her to come back.

Resist the temptation to give in to telling her everything you want to get off your chest. Instead you should wait until you can control your emotions and your tongue and then write down your words so you can edit them before your ex has a chance to see them.

3. Start rumors

Initiating vicious rumors in regard to your ex girlfriend is the best way to nail your own coffin. The reality is that it's best not to talk about her at all in your hours and days after the breakup - specifically if you feel you could say something that might hurt her and come back to haunt you.

Instead of doing these three things you need to focus on a long term plan to get your ex girlfriend back. This way you can work on doing positive things that will win her heart rather than drive her away.

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